Do 3, If you can't Do 3

"O man !" If you cannot do three things, then you should do another three.

1. If you cannot behave well towards anyone, then restrain yourself from behaving badly towards them.
2. If you cannot be of benefit to anyone, then guard them from your evil.
3. If you cannot fast, then refrain from eating their flesh (ie. backbiting). "

Hadhrat Yahya bin Muaadh(R.A.) says, " If you possess three qualities, you will be regarded as those who are righteous, viz.

1. If you cannot be of benefit to anyone, then do not harm them.

2. If you cannot make anyone happy, then do not cause them sadness.

3. If you cannot speak good of anyone, then do not speak ill of them."